India is a
land of diversities. Be it our culture, tradition, language, food habits etc.
we are unique and different in our own ways. The same rule applies when it
comes to marriages as well. In fact, these diversities make it more beautiful
and colourful. Let’s have a look at a Jain wedding and the ceremonies that they
follow.
Pre Wedding
Rituals
1. Lakhna
Lekhan
Lakhna
Lekhan marks the beginning of a Jain wedding where a Puja is held at the
bride’s house to decide an auspicious time to conduct the wedding and they send
it to the groom’s home.
2. Sagai
Sagai is
the engagement ceremony which usually takes place at the groom’s house. The
bride’s brother or any family member offers loads of gifts to the groom. The
Lakhna Patrika will be read out after Sagai and the wedding day preparations
begin afterwards including the wedding decorations.
3. Mada Mandap
This ritual
takes place in houses of both bride and groom on the day of the wedding. After
the Puja the Barat, the groom and his family, starts from their place to the
wedding venue. The bride’s brother welcomes the groom and both of them apply
with Tika on each other’s forehead.
Wedding
Rituals
4. Kanyavaran
After the
welcome ceremonies, the groom enters the wedding mandap and the bride arrives
to the mandap. Either the bride’s parents or the maternal uncle performs the
Kanyavaran where he places 1 rupee 25 paise and rice on the bride’s right hand.
They offer her hand to the groom’s hand amidst the mantras.
5. Granthi Bandhan
Granthi
Bandhan is usually performed by a married woman. She will tie the bride’s saree
pallu with the groom’s shawl. The knot is called Bandhan and it is tied for the
Phera ceremony. This ritual is followed by the mangalsutra where the groom ties
a chain around his lady’s neck.
6. Phera
Phere is
considered as the most significant part of any Indian wedding. Here the bride
and the groom walk seven rounds against the holy fire. While taking the Phera,
the couple agrees on 7 promises to make their married life happy and long
lasting.
7. Mangal Geet
Mangal Geet
is the auspicious song sung by the ladies gathered for the wedding. The Mangal
geet bring in an atmosphere of joy and delight, basically performed to relax
the couple. While they are singing, he applies Sindoor on her forehead and the
couple exchange garlands, which marks the end of the wedding ceremony.
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